Ok ill try to explain everything exactly how it happened...
I thought to myself to day that I would upgrade my reverse lights in the stock housing. So I went out and purchased a bulb that fits in the stock housing with just a slightly higher wattage and much higher light output.
The installation was quick and simple - until I went to test them... I put the bulb in the right side tail first and it worked wonderfully. Now on to the left side. Installed and when I went to test they both flickered then out completely, along with my radar detector which is tapped into the UConnect. Huh? Turned key to off and back to on, still no lights, no radar, and now the radio audio intermittently fades beeps then returns back to normal.
So i searched and finally found that I had blown a fuse under the hood. Replaced 15AMP fuse with a 20 amp and my reverse lights are on.

BUT still no radar.

Didnt notice the radio beeping anymore so I shut the key off then fully started the car and put it into reverse. Lights worked for a moment then went out - still no radar. Checked fuse under hood, all is well there.
So here is what im left with. With the stock reverse bulbs in, everything works like it should and always has. With better reverse bulbs installed, no radar and bulbs do not always work or they flicker.
Do i need some sort of load equalizer?
ANY IDEAS???